I’m a Two-Shoe Bride

Which is waaayyyy better then being a two-dress Bride. Right?

Let me set the scene. I take the long drive (okay… maybe it was only 40 minutes.. but that is long for me!) down to Ocala to Alterations Unlimited, and ultimately to finally try on my dress for the first time in months (bringing along my brand new and adorable Nina Electras). I get there, slip into my huge dress (that is a whole other story) and slip into my satin Ninas. As Debbie, the wonderful owner, went over with me my options with the dress and what undergarments I should purchase for our next meeting, all I could do was stare at my feet. How could I have been so absent minded to not even try on my beautiful new shoes with my Wedding dress (which Mr. Knight asked me over and over again once I came home and told him the story)? All I could see is how balently the shoes didn’t match my dress, not in style, material or color!

My dress is very light, air-y, lace-y and is devoid of any satin whatsoever (which is one of the reasons why I love it so much). So when I put on my beautiful satin, ivory, and bow-ed shoes with it, they just didn’t match. The shoes were meant for a more modern dress, and my dress has more of a vintage look to it. I think it was ultimately the big satin bow that threw off the whole look.

I’m normally very good about these things. I think about every decision I make extensively… probably think about my decisions too much. At this point, usually Mr. Knight would come in and say ‘yay’ or ‘nay’ to the shoes and call it a day (relinquishing any worry I had about them not matching my dress). But, alas, we are trying to keep some part of our Wedding traditional, and Mr. Knight hasn’t seen my dress.

I spent the 40 minute drive home from Ocala fretting about my shoes and what to do (I know… with so much going on in the world today and I’m worrying about a stupid pair of shoes… bridezilla much?). Then I had a sort of Wedding Shoe revelation. Not only was the bow on the Ninas a problem but so was the fabric, satin. I needed a shoe that was metallic, either silver or gold, to match my dress.

When I got home, I immediately got on the internet and searched high and low for Real Wedding pictures of Bride’s in my dress (I only found about two Weddings), looking strategically at their shoes to determine if my revelation was correct… and wa-LA.. I was sooo correct.

With the ‘okay’ from Mr. Knight I searched the internet for little metallic heels with a vintage flair (and with the same heel height as my previous Ninas) and came across these on eBay (one of my favorite shopping destinations):

These are some J Crew Beauties from a season or two ago. They are Pink Metallic (which will match my hair accessories) with a Pave Crystal Jewel. They were for about 1/3 their original price on eBay. Gotta love eBay!

I thought about these beauties for awhile (okay, maybe for all about 1/2 a day) and sent them over to Mr. Knight (who wasn’t very helpful… other then saying ‘Get what makes you happy’… ahh what a guy?). I ordered these beauties and waited patiently for them to arrive on our doorstep. I have to say, ordering them immediately calmed me down. I got really excited to get these little shoes in the mail, and to try them on with my dress (which my next alterations appointment is March 1st, where I will arrive shoes, veil, and undergarments in hand, to see the complete look).

The perfect amount of vintage-y goodness to complete my look! Once again Gator Kitty giving the shoes the ‘once over.’
(please ignore my feet… I’m sooo not a feet person.. so posting this picture of my own was hard)

I do have to say that I’m incredibly embarrassed to blog about my two-shoe Bride-ness. I plan to keep the Nina Electra’s till after the Wedding and sell them (thank goodness I didn’t pay full price for them!). I’m a good little eBay Seller, so I’m confident I can get just about the same price I paid for the Ninas, back.

I did feel like a crazy women, driving home and immediately ordering a different pair of shoes for my Wedding dress. But, I know that these are ‘the ones’ for sure. And if not, well I’m going to wear them ANYWAYS!

I have been joking to Mr. Knight that they are a little more uncomfortable then my Ninas, and as a result, I’m making him carry me everywhere at our Wedding. He usually responds that he better start lifting weights more often. I’ve worn more uncomfortable shoes then these before, and for many hours and been fine (I guess that is what dancing in pointe shoes for years will do for you). So, I’m not worried at all. Hey, beauty is pain, right? haha.

Was there a moment in your wedding planning process/or wedding where you felt you were a total mad, crazy, bridezilla women?

10 Comment

  1. I think those J Crew shoes are lovely, and you’ll definitely wear them again!

  2. @Stacy Marie: That’s exactly what I thought, totally re-wearable… although I still feel like I had a slightly crazy bridezilla moment. Btw, love the joint blog you and Miss Pug’s started… I’m featuring it in the near future… aka.. .tomorrow!

  3. Jesselyn says:

    I LOVE those Crew shoes. In LOVE.

  4. Emily says:

    Girl, Foot Petals are a necessisty on the wedding day. Mine saved my life!!! We’ll get you hooked up with some!

    I still sorta can’t believe you never tried them on with your dress until then, though :)

  5. I hate to be the grammar nazi, darlin’, but… wow… I think maybe I should start proof-reading your articles from now on—it was rough.

    The story was good (even though, naturally, I wish you were just a one shoe girl). I’m so glad you’re such a “good lil’ ebay-er”. :-)

  6. Gator Bridesmaid says:

    aww soo cute Kim! I LOVE the first pair of shoes- maybe u can wear them to the rehearsal dinner?? cause they are super cute! and the second are very elegant and will def go well with ur dress! cant wait to see!

    oo and since u asked… Maybe I should share the story how I went crazy bridezilla on my veils??? lol

  7. @Gator Bridesmaid: Oh dooo share your ‘two-veil’ bride-ness!! Make me feel better!!! haha. Yes. I love the first shoes… Still might keep them if I find the right little dress to wear with them. They are so comfortable too!

  8. Vanessa says:

    that was not bridezilla-y at all! if the shoes don’t match, they don’t match. Your new shoes are totally gorge, and I’m happy you found them! btw, I would’ve bought’em from you if I hadn’t already found a pair at DSW that I lurve (DSW is the bomb dig).

    I definitely feel like a bridezilla everytime I send an email out to the bridesmaids about the wedding. As brides I think we have to realize that NObody cares about your wedding as much as you do, lol. Nobody. oh except our wonderful fiances :)

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